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You grew up feeling alone and unloved. Your father was emotionally unavailable, hyper-critical or abusive and you have a low sense of self-worth. You romanticize and anguish about a relationship with your new man. Your feelings of uncertainty project desperation and neediness.
You allow a man to walk all over you or your fearful subconscious causes you to reject a man before he can reject you. When a quality man shows an interest in you, you act out with your insecure and irrational behavior. You have panic attacks, you binge on ice cream, pizza and chips, you drink too much and you succumb to promiscuous sex. You worry frantically, you withdraw from your friends and you slip into funky depression.
Boyfriends fall out of love with you because a relationship with you is neurotic, difficult and emotional draining. You allow men in your life who are non-communicating, non-committal and abusive. Want one.
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You ditch your girlfriends and you cancel your plans to go out with him at the last minute.
Solution: STOP selling yourself short! Ignore the tingling, throbbing, love-sick feelings that you experience about a new man. Calling him will make you appear anxious. Anxious will make you appear needy. If you have to guess whether or not to call.
You call, text and him more than he contacts you. You concoct way to be with him; you invite him to a party and you cook dinner for him. You keep his favorite beer or liquor on hand. You give him gifts, mail him cute cards or send flowers to his home of office yes, women to this!
When you call and leave him a message or you text him, wait until he contacts you. He could be busy or waiting for a reason or the right time to call. Ditch the syrupy greeting cards and ask him to pick a nice bottle of wine up before coming to your house. If you are indeed giving more than you receive, you are with the wrong guy. You act out your apprehension. You constantly text him and call him.
You drive by his house and you stalk him on Facebook. Your job is to be charming, receptive and appreciative of his pursuit. Bombarding a man with texting and phone calls is the surest way to push him away. If you believe you ARE the prize, he will sense your confidence and self-worth and he will work double-time to win your favor. You hound him for affirmation. You feel he is not fulfilling your relationship needs. You beg him to talk to you, reveal his intimate thoughts with you, spend more time with you and have sex with you.
Your behavior is smothering and suffocating, causing him to pull back from you to protect his personal space. Solution: Dating in hopes of a serious relationship is an unrewarding process. Absence does make the heart grow fonder. Force yourself to Im lookin for a needy woman him space and create activities for yourself.
Practice dating for the sake of entertainment and friendship. Go out with your friends. Spend time alone, nurture your 7 chakras and learn to love your own company. Warning: your man may be emotionally stunted and incapable of fulfilling your basic emotional needs, in which case is a lost cause.
You discount his hurtful behavior. Your love for him is blind, irrational and self-destructive. You bond to a man whose dysfunctional behavior jells with your needy, codependent mindset. You minimize and discount the oblivious—that he is self-absorbed, unreliable, deceitful, non-communicating and quick-tempered. You subconsciously or knowingly operate in denial, tolerating his bad behavior. Solution: You deserve better. If you continually commit to men who make your heart ache and you are uncertain about your future with him—you need to get into therapy so you can understand WHY you gravitate to men who mistreat you.
You act like a doormat. You let him come over at midnight for a booty call. You sweep aside the fact that he canceled your Friday night date at the last minute. He texts you for a date at the last minute and you actually go. He lies to you and he verbally abuses you and you silently condone his maltreatment. Solution: Men do not respect women they exploit.
Stop trying to please him and be good to yourself.
Raise your standards. Hold him able for his bad behavior. Be cognizant of what you want and need in a relationship and make up your mind to accept nothing less. You cling to man who has lost interest in you. His phone calls and text messages have stopped and he spends less and less time with you. His conversations with you are shallow and short and he has less physical touch with you. You try to reel him back in; you send him flirty, sexy messages and you invite him over for a drink. He turns you down and so you haunt his favorite hangout hoping to run into him.
You think if he sees you, it will rekindle his interest in you but you are disheartened by his cold reception. Solution: Pursuing a man will not change the way he feels about you. If he seems distant or suddenly unavailable, take care of your mental state by making yourself slightly more unavailable.
Allowing a man to have his space without your interference will give him the freedom to recharge his manhood. When he happily and willingly comes back to you, you will experience a surge of confidence and self-worth. Paperback and Ebooks available at online stores. Related Articles. Never Date a Dead Animal. Secrets of the Ultimate Husband Hunter. Coming soon! Dating Topics Self-Esteem.
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